Ben van Wetten.
When did you decide to give up, what made you decide this was going to be as good as it is going to get?
Ponder the absence of the missing "why", because the 'why' becomes a reason and not the decision factor. The dicision factor is the time when you have figured for yourself that this is as good as it is going to get and you accept it as such. The reasons you put up front are the excuses you sell yourself into accepting the situation.
There are countless examples of people losing limbs, becoming physically disabled to various degrees of disability and a lot will accept this and spend the rest of their lives cared for and in a wheel chair or closeted to a bed. People working in businesses get laid off, retrenched as it were and are quite happy to then use that as an excuse to give up. You get the point.
A good number will sit back, accept and decide to make the physical rehabilitation their first goal towards reinventing themselves. Whether physical or mental, there will be scars, but the decision to go forward, that is made.
When did you decide that life goes on, that there is a future for you, that you are entitled to live a life?
Go, rebuild, reshape, reinvent your life and live.
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